Whether we worry over how our toddlers will be treated by
the other children, or we agonize over our full-grown children getting good
jobs, we are emotionally invested in our children’s success. Teaching our little ones the importance of
etiquette is something that can help them reach their goals, as well as the
goals we loving parents have for them.
Take for example the toddler mentioned above. If your little boy is engaging in
inappropriate behavior at the park, play group, or daycare center, then the other
children are not going to want to play with him. Not only does this affect his social
standing, but it hurts a parent to see his or her child left out.
Etiquette lessons are not just about which fork to use,
rather they teach children how to interact appropriately in all types of social
situations. This results in better
acceptance from the other children, and a more enjoyable experience for your
child.
Older children also benefit from a solid foundation in
proper etiquette. The skills taught in
these classes can actually help them in their regular school studies. For example, learning better listening skills
will ultimately teach them to pay better attention to their teachers.
In addition, learning how to treat the teachers respectfully
will help them create better relationships with the adults in charge of their
learning experience. In turn, teachers
take more of an interest in the child who is kind and polite.
It is a winning combination that leads to improved studies
and learning opportunities. Of course, a
solid education is the foundation for so many other successes in life.
A good understanding of etiquette is something that will
continue to benefit your child throughout his life. From making a good first impression to
communicating clearly, the skills taught in etiquette classes pertain as much
to the workplace as they do to the schoolyard.
For example, something as simple as learning the proper way
to stand, sit, and walk (called deportment) will help your child convey a sense
of self confidence that can help him get a good job and to be more effective at
that job. Learning good personal
grooming habits can affect all of his relationships, including who he
ultimately marries.
Giving your child a strong background in etiquette is something
concrete that you can do as a parent that will undoubtedly help him become a
more successful person. He will be
better liked and will be more prepared to graciously handle the things that
life has to offer.
As parents, these are the types of experiences we dream our
children will have. It’s wonderful to
know that we have the ability to help guide and direct them toward this
outcome.
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