Children Etiquette - Importance of Teaching Social Skills To Youngsters

We often complain about how things are not the same anymore. The same goes for people and their behaviors, specially the younger lot. If you look around you can’t help but notice how disrespectful the youngsters of today are. They are quite impatient, want things done their way and are not willing to cooperate with others. The adults and parents are seen as either their enemy, or people who simply do not understand them. Filial piety seems like a concept from the pages of history; which has no place in the life of today’s young ones.


We understand the importance of respect and want our children to do so too. But, we often forget that although respect is a great thing, it has to be earned. In order to be respected you have to show respect towards others. This includes your children and not just the adults you interact with. There are some very basic changes you can incorporate in your behavior in order to merit respect from your children, and not demand it.


It all starts with listening to them when they talk to you. Just like you want them to pay attention when you are talking, your child expects the same from you. With today’s busy lifestyles it is often not possible for parents to take out as much time as they would like to for their children. But, make sure you take out the time when your child comes to you for anything.


You cannot trust someone who lies, and when you can’t trust them you don’t respect them. You lose your respect in your children’s eyes if you lie order to cover up for your mistakes. So, it’s always best to tell them the truth only then, can you expect them to do the same. This teaches your child that it’s ok to make mistakes. So, if he makes one he won’t lie to you or hide it from you out of fear.


If you want your child to respect your privacy, you would have to do the same. It does not mean that you don’t keep an eye on what your child is doing, but be sure to be gentle in your ways. The same goes for, if you want him to show respect towards elders in the family or your friends you would have to show respect towards him and his friends.


Teach your child the value of self worth and self respect. If they would not respect themselves they would not be able to respect others. Praise and appreciate your child for positive behavior.


Lastly, it is also important for a child to know that he is loved and cared for. We often assume that our children know that we love them but an occasional gesture of love can go a long way.


Respect is an attitude which helps your children succeed in life. As he learns to respect others, he wins the respect of others. You can teach your child this virtue by giving him the respect he deserves as an individual.

Thumbs Up for Our Students

The Etiquette Plus, Confidence is Cool,  Macaroni and Please and Children Social Etiquette and Dining Workshop held during the school holiday were a huge success.  The children did so well and we were  very proud of them.  View more pictures in our facebook.

Etiquette Plus on 11 June to 13 June 2012

Confidence is Cool on 11 June to 13 June 2012

Macaroni and Please on 19 June to 20 June 2012

Etiquette Plus on 18 June to 20 June 2012

 

Children Social Etiquette and Dining Workshop on 02 June 2012

We were featured in The Strait Times

The children were so thrilled and  happy to see the Strait Times photo journalist in our Macaroni and Please workshop on 19June to 20June 2012. Pictures were taken during the workshop and the article was  featured on  The Straits Times on 23 June 2012. 

View more pictures in our facebook. 

Closing Sales with Proper Business Etiquette

Proper etiquette and social graces are not only important in personal dealings but also necessary for leaving a good impression on people in a business setting. Most people aren’t even aware as to how they should conduct themselves when faced with such a situation. This is why business etiquette training workshops are arranged to help individuals interact with others in a work environment.

In today’s world, sales are closed over business meals and other unconventional places, for which you need to be prepared at all times. Do not be misled by the informal setting, it is still a business meet-up and you’ve got to present yourself in the best possible way for closing the deal. Hence, in this scenario not only your professional competence is tested but it is equally important for the personality and character to shine through. In this regard, a business etiquette training workshop delivers important advice on personal grooming so that you can go ahead in your professional life. It includes guidelines on how to incorporate confidence, self-assurance and poise in your personality, which is extremely essential to gaining trust of the person/party you’re dealing with. Remember, you’re constantly being evaluated by the other party, so in order to pass with flying colors, business etiquette training is quite necessary.

If you’re selling a product for instance, then something as little as improper dressing can project a negative image.  Similarly, the inability to strike a conversation with clients will not help your cause either. These may appear as slight matters, even more so when no business school stresses upon it. Instead, all of these tiny details are taken care of in a business etiquette training workshop because it is now widely accepted that the right decorum and protocol will help to a great extent in closing sales.

A typical business etiquette training workshop will aim to enhance your overall personality by teaching important aspects of clothing, communication, confidence-building and professionalism. These workshops not only aim to improve behavioral aspects but also the overall outlook of a person. Personal hygiene, hair and skin care, poise and posture may seem irrelevant but in actual world, they’re the foremost factors responsible for leaving a good or bad impression. Some people may not realize but even the attire needs to be according to the corporate requirements. Similarly, the hair style needs to be such that is presents a professional image. It’s all about giving your clients the respect that they deserve, ultimately leading to building your successful career.

Remember, you may have memorized every text book rule for making a successful deal, however when it comes to practical life, you cannot hope to go far without adequate business etiquette training. Therefore, if you are unable to maintain a profitable and productive business relationship, then consider taking help from a professional and enroll yourself in a business etiquette training workshop instantly! It’s not that you lack the talent to close sales but only require a little grooming to move ahead.

Thank You Note from Crystal

Today, I was pleasantly surprised to have received a thank you note from my client, Crystal Tan. As an image and etiquette consultant, I have coached many, but I really feel most appreciated, when I read a “thank you” note from one of my clients. It really makes me happy to know that my client is doing well, and my advice has helped them achieve their goal.

Crystal Tan came for my one-on-one consultation on business Etiquette on 21April . I remembered that day, when Crystal arrived. She didn’t look very confident and looked rather sad. When I conduct a one-on-one consultation, I like to know more about my client then see how I can help them, because each person is in a different situation with different expectations. After chatting with her for an hour or so, I realised that there are many factors that contributed to her behaviour. One very important factor was that Crystal seemed very emotional while sharing her problems and weaknesses to me.

As an etiquette consultant, I do not only help my clients on business etiquette related topics; I also help to build my client's confidence. Sometimes, my clients have called me a counsellor or a friend, because I actually listened to them and they took comfort in that. I feel that my job has been done, when one of my clients leave my office feeling better and more confident about themselves.

The Importance of Etiquette in Children

One of the most daunting yet important tasks of raising children in today’s society is instilling good social values and etiquette in them. Good manners and behavior play a paramount role in a child’s life.  In fact, the well being of a society ultimately depends on the values and etiquette of our children. 

Parents need to realize that the ultimate responsibility and need to nurture and groom their children into becoming well-mannered individual begin at a very young age. The very first role model of a child is a parent figure at home. To encourage good etiquette and habits, parents need to lead by example and always display good etiquette at all times. Teaching the kids some basic rules about good behavior such as table manners, politeness and kindness are a lifetime investment that will definitely pay off as your children grow older. 

Starting your children on the path to good values early in life can not only help them get along with others better, but also help them develop respect for different cultures and races. It is important that children learn how to interact with different people in their social circle and react appropriately to people from different parts of the world. Proper etiquette habits also help them to move with confidence in society and carry the right values in their personal and professional lives. 

A great etiquette workshop will encourage good habits in dining etiquette, social and communication skills, as well as build confidence and self-esteem among children. Groom your children to be good leaders and respectful individuals in our society to help them excel in our challenging environment.

About Image Flair Children’s Academy

Image Flair Children’s Academy of Modern Etiquette is dedicated to nurturing our youth into established, respectful, and well-groomed individuals of our society. Eunice Tan, founder and consultant of Image Flair, is an internationally recognized image and etiquette consultant that has made a difference in the lives of hundreds of children, as well as their parents. 

Contact Eunice for a personal and confidential consultation on how Image Flair can help your children.

Here Comes The Bride

Looking and feeling great are just the tip of the iceberg when
it comes to wedding preparation.

Weddings are joyous occasions that celebrate a union between loving couples, and a time to share all these wonderful moments with family and friends. Despite the joy and excitement, weddings are a stressful time. From dress selection to dinner, everything demands the utmost attention to detail. 

Without turning your wedding into a hair-pulling frenzy, you can transform this special even into the best party and celebration of your life by incorporating some simple tips and tricks. As an image consultant, it is perplexing as to why couples can spend hundreds of dollars on wedding arrangements and gifts, but fail to give any consideration to what matters the most, the bride and groom. 

Perhaps, it is the lack of awareness and priority given to the most important couple of the wedding, or maybe the stress from preparations and living up to expectations have overshadowed the importance of looking and behaving your best at your wedding. Remember, that when all eyes are on you, proper image and etiquette for weddings is important in holding up a good image and presenting yourself as best as you can. This will not only add to your happiness on your special day but also leave a lasting impression on guests.

Colour analysis for brides is one of the services offered under the Wedding & Special Occasions workshop. It provides professional advice on choosing colors that are best suited to your skin tone. We don’t need an expert to tell us that color coordination is important but we do need help from someone who has sufficient experience and skill to select the right colors for your evening gown, your lip and eye makeup selection, and even the bouquet you’ll be holding the entire evening!

Apart from providing color analysis for brides, the Wedding & Special Occasions workshop proves to be quite helpful in determining the precise style for men and women that not only complements their body but also enhances their personality. While you can afford to look less than perfect on a normal day, your wedding isn’t one of those occasions you want to pass! 

Similarly, jewellery and makeup are two essential aspects of looking great for your big day. It’s your wedding and quite rightly you’re the center of attention, being scrutinized by everyone present at the event. You cannot simply go with your instinct as to what looks better. Questions like, what would go better with your dress, diamonds or pearls or what shade of eye-shadow would bring out the eyes, are all important ones that need to be addressed. 

Apart from appearance, dressing, and looking great, there are other important areas to take note of for your wedding. Acting appropriately in front of guests is important to ensuring that you do not embarrass yourself or give your guests an awkward experience. Appropriate wedding behavior is important to keeping up with that great image you just created for yourself.

Prior to the wedding, invitations, introductions, seating, acknowledging your guests are all part of bride and groom etiquette. Here are a few wedding arrangement tips that you should keep in mind:

• Send out invitations well before time (no Facebook invitations should not be condoned)
• Provide all possible convenience to your guest especially accommodation and food
• Avoid bad timing

Lastly, of course, have a great time and enjoy the beginning to a wonderful journey together as man and wife!